Fruit of the Spirit : Self-Control
The ability to delay gratification of needs, even legitimate ones, is an indicator that maturity has dawned or is dawning. To attend to another’s need before your own, to give way; to be sober in thought, feelings, actions, and at times say no to oneself make us better human beings.
Galatians 5:22    But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness…

Proverbs 16:32    Whoever is slow to anger is better than the mighty, and he who rules his spirit than he who takes a city.